Last week was my mini-vacation to the beach with my family. Every year my family heads up to New Hampshire for a week, but I do not stay the entire week. This year I stayed three nights. It’s a quick road trip, a few minutes less than two hours from my house (depending on Boston traffic.) We are quite literally right on the beach – a 50 yard walk to the sand.
I drank more than I should have, ate more than I should have, and worked out less than I should have (only went for one run.) At night I would lay in bed (I had a room in my grandparent’s rented cottage to myself) and listen to the hum of the ceiling fan and watch the curtains rise and fall with the salt air wind. I was almost able to convince myself that none of this matters. That it doesn’t matter if I am ever pregnant again or have children. That life goes on and I am going on with it, and maybe I just am not supposed to have children and should give it up. I was this.close. to convincing myself. No temperature taking, no OPKs, no wondering. No sex, because The Husband didn’t go up with me. Just wandering aimlessly – to the beach, to the boardwalk, to the restaurants, the stores.
And, is there anything better than an outdoor shower? My favorite part of renting a beach cottage is an outdoor shower. In any event I was home Friday afternoon in time for the local Independence Day festivities. All in all, a good mini-vacation. My favorite part of 4th of July weekend was being able to captain my mother and step-father’s boat. Maybe I will give this all up, get a boat and be a pirate.
Driving through Boston. Why is there traffic going in to Boston at 7PM???
Welcome to the beach.
My youngest cousin, P, flying kites.
Rainbow after a particularly nasty thunderstorm.
Moonlight.
Sending off some sky lanterns.
We used to play manhunt in these dunes.
Atlantic coast.
The view from a rooftop bar on the boardwalk
Pre fireworks bonfire.
Pre fireworks sunset.
Captain for the day
Boat shoes
Cruising around the USS Joseph P. Kennedy
Looks like a fabulous vacation — New Hampshire is gorgeous, and my husband and I are planning to take part of our vacation there later this summer. 🙂 I definitely recognize those feelings of apathy about the whole pregnancy thing… there have been a lot of moments in the last few months when I’ve stopped and thought to myself, “Wait, why did I ever want kids again? Will they really be worth all of this?” It’s more than OK to ask those questions sometimes, and I think it’s a healthy thing to be able to feel like you’ll be OK and things in general will be OK even if bio-kids don’t work out. That’s not quite the same thing as giving up, I guess, but hopefully you can move your feelings in that direction?
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I hope you enjoy your time there when you go! The beach is my favorite, but out in the country/mountains is also quite beautiful. I was definitely feeling apathetic while I was away, and whether it was just a natural progression after all I have been through or too many Bud Lights I don’t know… but it was nice not to be WORRYING so much. Of course, when I got home, the OPK was out in full force.
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Love the pics!! So pretty there!
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Yes it is pretty! I love the New England coast; very picturesque!
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Glad you had a nice time! 🙂
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Thanks!
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Beautiful pictures! You should definitely become a pirate!
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I keep commenting with the wrong account, and I don’t know how to fix it. ARGH!
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I do that too. When I am commenting on Blogspot, it will randomly comment from my gmail account even though I want it to link to my wordpress account. It has a mind of it’s own!!
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Yo ho, yo ho, a pirates life for me…. In my best Captain Jack Sparrow voice 🙂
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Love the pictures! So glad you had a getaway!
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Me too! I have another one scheduled for the end of the month, then I am done for a while. But it’s nice to get away when the weather is nice enough to enjoy it!
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Looks beautiful! Vacations are for eating too much and not working out… You certainly did much better than me! All I do is eat and sleep and drink on vacations. Love the boat picture. Makes me want to go out on a lake soon!
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Eating and sleeping and drinking sounds divine to me! We have another vacation at the end of this month and that will all be on the itinerary 🙂
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This looks like a great vacation. I am with you – outdoor showers are the BEST!
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Yes, they are the BEST! I wish The Husband would build me one at our house. Maybe our next house… 😉
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